tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post5703235252354925999..comments2023-10-21T10:08:40.942-04:00Comments on Handmade By Heather B: My arch nemesis the bathing suitHeather Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16301752361056276451noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-39335528307004969072015-07-26T16:06:29.394-04:002015-07-26T16:06:29.394-04:00Shame you're not happy with both your swimming...Shame you're not happy with both your swimming costumes; they make you look absolutely gorgeous. Eff off to the nasty little sods from the past. Hurrah for Renaissance figures; mine is similar to yours, and I get chatted up by nutters at the bus stop, so clearly I still HAVE IT. Big love to you and your lovely boy xxJulianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-38702111718130075242015-07-25T14:53:19.146-04:002015-07-25T14:53:19.146-04:00Oh my goodness - Des is so incredibly cute! And I&...Oh my goodness - Des is so incredibly cute! And I'm glad his happiness is contagious!<br />You look gorgeous on the beach - and bust support issues aside, I really like both swimsuits on you. Personally, I think all teenage boys are asshats and it has way more to do with them than you but it's hard to know that as an impressionable, self-conscious teen. I had some similar experiences in my youth too, and I still avoid a bathing suit at all costs, hence I do not see myself sewing one anytime soon. Thanks so much for sharing - I'm off to commiserate with some brownies.Heatherhttp://www.thepugandneedle.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-40246795255923331762015-07-25T09:37:30.128-04:002015-07-25T09:37:30.128-04:00Hi Heather, FWIW, I think you look amazing in both...Hi Heather, FWIW, I think you look amazing in both suits, don't be too hard on yourself please! Having just posted pics of my self made swimsuit on my own blog, I know it takes courage to share those pics but you have got it in spades, lady. You look great and I hope this is the start of a new found love for the beach (even if only to show off more and more fancy new swimwear).CapitalChicnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-53359254156448414802015-07-24T17:23:46.198-04:002015-07-24T17:23:46.198-04:00Gah! Just wrote a big comment and it disappeared. ...Gah! Just wrote a big comment and it disappeared. So, short version! You look amazing. Everyone hates wearing swimwear to the beach. You did a great job under the circumstances. Hopefully you now have a good grounding for making new suits for next time! Possibly a tanking would work for you, and since you like the top from one suit and the bottoms from the other, you have a good starting point already!!! XHelen // Grosgrain GreenHttp://grosgraingreen.blogspot.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-56710577781637644192015-07-24T15:41:52.065-04:002015-07-24T15:41:52.065-04:00I love 'em! High-waisted bikini bottoms and an...I love 'em! High-waisted bikini bottoms and an underwire bikini top are the secrets!Nicole Morganhttp://www.pudgeandnico.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-86900576197044610362015-07-24T15:36:59.879-04:002015-07-24T15:36:59.879-04:00Okay, first of all, that photo of baby Desmond eat...Okay, first of all, that photo of baby Desmond eating sand!?!? HILARIOUS! I love how it almost looks like a selfie too. "fml, just ate sand."<br /><br />But also, I really appreciate how open and honest you were about all this, and I'm glad that you were able to make it to the beach and have a good time even if you didn't feel 100% comfortable. I do think you look really cute in both of these, but I get that sometimes what's going on in our own heads is all that matters. Last week, I had a day where I looked in the mirror and was like, "Damn, I'm looking good lately!" and then the next day I looked in the mirror and was like, "UGH WHY AM I SUCH A MONSTERRRR!?!" I don't have any real advice to give about body acceptance, I think it just takes time and it's important to remember all the badass stuff our bods can do like sew clothes and karate kick waves and walk around and eat cake, and to try to love our bodies for that. But I also get that sometimes we just want our bodies to look different from how they do, and to that, I'd just say, let the feeling pass. Not all of our thoughts are true or important, so better to just let them float on by and focus on the good.<br /><br />Anyway, I wonder if you'd like a high-waisted bikini? As a curvy girl, I don't like one-pieces because I feel like they accentuate my stomach. I LOVE high-waisted bikini bottoms though because they cover up a pooch and define the waist, and you can get some super cute bra-like bikini tops nowadays that support just like real bras. I really like the ones made by Panache and Elomi. They're pricey, but they last for years!Nicole Morganhttp://www.pudgeandnico.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-55839304666795501062015-07-24T11:27:12.413-04:002015-07-24T11:27:12.413-04:00Well, I think you look great in both. I made the b...Well, I think you look great in both. I made the bombshell earlier this summer and it is the first swimsuit I actually feel comfortable wearing around other people. I think it's the combo of the ruching and the full butt coverage. And I agree that it's WAY preferable to sew your own than to go try and find one in the stores! And it's nice to tweak the fit. I hope you feel up to trying it again and adding in the underwires (I have no idea how to do this as I have the opposite problem and had to 'pad' my bust) :)Margo Gillaspynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-75578430113185430602015-07-24T10:36:03.203-04:002015-07-24T10:36:03.203-04:00I hade pretty good success sticking real bra suppo...I hade pretty good success sticking real bra support inside the Bombshell Swimsuit if you were going to try again: http://awaywesew.tumblr.com/post/122962241255/i-made-a-swimsuit-and-sharing-these-photos-withCarlynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-29358756348103476512015-07-24T09:45:20.042-04:002015-07-24T09:45:20.042-04:00I agree with your husband: you look fantastic. Des...I agree with your husband: you look fantastic. Despite the minor adjustments you mentioned, both swimsuits look gorgeous. You must be proud of yourself!Hélènenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-29437896037621453802015-07-24T09:20:37.291-04:002015-07-24T09:20:37.291-04:00Oh! And this might be TMI, but just grab front and...Oh! And this might be TMI, but just grab front and back and pull the swimsuit to the side when you need to pee.Splinters & Stitcheshttp://splintersnstitches.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-7560018491492018982015-07-24T09:17:05.246-04:002015-07-24T09:17:05.246-04:00Bummer that you had trouble with these, because th...Bummer that you had trouble with these, because they look great! (My fave is the blue one!) And people suck. They suck no matter your weight, because they'll always find something to bitch about. Despite that, it sounds like you had a great time, and maybe next time you won't dread going so much. :-)Splinters & Stitcheshttp://splintersnstitches.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-20975938966759020612015-07-24T09:14:47.678-04:002015-07-24T09:14:47.678-04:00The teenage boys sound like jerks. And those swims...The teenage boys sound like jerks. And those swimsuits look great on you! I'm sorry that you're not completely happy with them, but I can understand the feeling--I have to admit that a big part of me is glad that keeping the baby away from sunscreen for the first 6 months gives me an excuse to not put a swimsuit on this summer! I can also understand the irritation at the one pieces, especially for bathroom usage. I like the look of the bombshell swimsuit, and am definitely tempted to give it a try sometime, but only if I can convert it to a tankini. <br /><br />Also, that picture of Des is great! And I hope you did enjoy the trip-- though I usually end up at the Delaware beaches, I've been to that beach a couple of times, and I would definitely go back.Becky Whttp://sew-and-so.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-74521528827425001842015-07-24T08:39:30.171-04:002015-07-24T08:39:30.171-04:00Fantastic post Heather!! I'm just going to ch...Fantastic post Heather!! I'm just going to chime in with everyone else and say (1) you look amazing in both suits, and (2) those teenage boys from your childhood can suck it!! I'm appalled that anyone would actually say those things to another human being, seriously. Anyway, good for you for rising above and conquering all sorts of new sewing skills here, and making two great suits in the process! There are always mistakes and fitting changes to make on the first go-round with a pattern, so don't beat yourself up over minor imperfections. You look fantastic, and yay for handmade swimwear!!Carolynnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-4493244698546423812015-07-24T07:39:02.210-04:002015-07-24T07:39:02.210-04:00Great job! and very courageous!
Does anybody not ...Great job! and very courageous! <br />Does anybody not hate swimsuits?Astrid K.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-69415584636101583822015-07-24T03:23:48.002-04:002015-07-24T03:23:48.002-04:00We need to save the picture of Des for when we nee...We need to save the picture of Des for when we need a pick me up. :)Stephanie Ramaekersnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-66544675554890886762015-07-24T03:22:32.472-04:002015-07-24T03:22:32.472-04:001) That pic of Des cracks me up everytime! 2) Hubb...1) That pic of Des cracks me up everytime! 2) Hubby is right, you look awesome in those bathing suits 3) I can sadly totally relate to how you are feeling, I only feel comfortable in a bathing suit when I'm pregnant (All excess me is due to pregnancy then, or so I tell myself) 4) I hate the beach as well and since my eczema takes a turn for the worst whenever it comes in contact with sea water and sand, I've got a valid excuse. Too bad hubby wants to take the kids to the seaside when they are older.Stephanie Ramaekersnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-349871223192421312015-07-24T01:23:49.246-04:002015-07-24T01:23:49.246-04:00I remember the same feelings growing up! I've ...I remember the same feelings growing up! I've got to the stage that I don't care what others think of the way I look, but good fitting swimsuits are vital. I was ecstatic when I discovered that I could buy swimwear - both one and two piece with differing cup sizes and under wire! Sadly they aren't cheap, but buying quality supplies to sew swimwear is almost impossible in New Zealand, and I've had some less than successful experiences buying online ( not to mention the horrendous cost of postage).<br />Your suits look great, and well worth persevering with to get the support you need.Fiona Vincentnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-81190633064290746682015-07-23T23:54:51.313-04:002015-07-23T23:54:51.313-04:00I think you look amazing in both your suits and th...I think you look amazing in both your suits and thanks for sharing the sewing process on the suits. You are a great mom to head to the beach for your sonLorihttp://girlsinthegarden.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-46834221727277666402015-07-23T23:16:44.577-04:002015-07-23T23:16:44.577-04:00I saw the title and thought, here goes another pos...I saw the title and thought, here goes another post about hating your body. But you make it clear it's THEIR problem and not YOURS! Thank you again for a great post. Here's hoping you find a suit that works well for you, and these lovelies seem like a great start! (Or that you can stay home and flounce around in your lovely dresses ;) )Meghttp://megmadethis.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-41110338111007673582015-07-23T22:49:04.941-04:002015-07-23T22:49:04.941-04:00I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post. I have onl...I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post. I have only just recently discovered your blog and have had a great time reading over all your entries. I'm feeling very inspired now, although don't think I'm quite up to making swimsuits yet. Well done, I think you looked stunning in both.Sew Little Timenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-3326856811351871792015-07-23T22:43:10.241-04:002015-07-23T22:43:10.241-04:00Holy bejeezus, every woman who reads this is going...Holy bejeezus, every woman who reads this is going to relate to it, regardless of what she looks like. We're so hard on ourselves. I think your suits look fan-tab-u-lous. And, so true, taking a kid to the beach helps with it being the best thing ever. So, tomorrow, I'm going to to take my pale not-so-perfect self to the pool with my kids because I always try to get out of it-- and I'll have a drink in your honror poolside. .Roarynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-18394119116060613172015-07-23T22:31:50.661-04:002015-07-23T22:31:50.661-04:00I have to say, thank you for sharing all this! It ...I have to say, thank you for sharing all this! It sucks to be a teenager who doesn't embody the lean, thin thighed "ideal." I was always super self-conscious of my large hip to small bust ratio. But, dang I can't even with those nasty comments from boys! What?! Loosers. Both suits look great, especially the bombshell. And yes, watching young kids at the beach is just the best thing ever!lisa gnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-23730326969207029512015-07-23T22:29:51.836-04:002015-07-23T22:29:51.836-04:00You look beautiful! Don't worry about what ot...You look beautiful! Don't worry about what other people think, as long as you're making a memory with your family! I am plus size & I don't like the way I look in a bathing suit either, but I figure if I'm modestly covered, having a good time with my family........all is well! <br />You are brave to make your own swimsuit. I give you kudos for the attempt!<br />Bonnie @www.sewplus.blogspot.comBonnienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-26915604280224530112015-07-23T22:00:16.621-04:002015-07-23T22:00:16.621-04:00Wow! I think they look amazing on you and you look...Wow! I think they look amazing on you and you look gorgeous. I can see the body shape/fit issues you mention if I look for them but they don't look bad to me and also they are absolutely not the first things that jump out at me. But I also know that how we think about our bodies is hard to shift. Teenage boys are the. Worst.<br /><br />I need to get on the swimsuit sewing bandwagon. We moved near the beach last year and I am down there as often as I can be when it's warm (Currently winter here and it's terrible) but all my suits are getting a bit baggy saggy and never fit that great to begin with. And I DO like to feel secure at the beach... I'm put off by finding materials and also the boob support thing. I hate underwires and never wear them but that means I need some HEAVY duty elastic under my boobs. The thing I will say about that, supportwise, is that the band needs to be quite wide, like 1.5" minimum, and quite tight. Tighter than would be comfortable in an underwired bra. I'm not sure how to navigate that in a swimsuit but those are the things I know are structurally important for supporting boobs. And then I also need decent, actual elastic shoulder straps. They need to be pretty tight, too, and a firm band of that tightness is uncomfortable, and will also pull the back up.Craftastrophieshttp://www.craftastrophies.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2170578327853219575.post-25536186045334383022015-07-23T21:55:31.290-04:002015-07-23T21:55:31.290-04:00Perfect timing Heather! We are heading to the bea...Perfect timing Heather! We are heading to the beach on Sunday and I have to make a swimsuit before we leave.....Lindanoreply@blogger.com